

I don't like Rahm Emanuel. I don't like him. Not personally. Not politically.
I think he represents everything bad about American politics. He is ideological, self-reverential, and arrogant, and a man who cares only about political power and what it can bring to his party and the ideology it serves. Truth, honor, fairness -- to him, all concepts that don't factor in.
I also think he would have no qualms about killing any unborn baby, anytime, anywhere, if it served a selfish personal or political end.
I also think he thinks mentally disabled or special needs or mentally handicapped people are essentially worthless, essentially drains on society. "Think of all the public works and welfare projects we could fund with those resources," I'd bet he believes. (At least his justifying of the killing such children as unborn useless eaters is based in blind ideology; Joe Biden would support a mother killing such a child, in spite of his belief that they are human beings.
That is the special form of evil and hypocrisy that Joe Biden embraces. But that's another story for a different day.)
Anyway, I never apologize for Emanuel. I never think he deserves the benefit of the doubt. So when he called liberals who proposed attack ads against "moderate" Democrats "f---ing retarded," I believe he used the word "retarded" in the worst way possible.
Beneath this flap, however, is the fact that no one, not even those who try to help mentally-disabled people, is on the same page regarding what word
is acceptable.
Not many years ago -- certainly within the last ten years -- a lot of people who support and help such mentally disabled people themselves called such people "retarded." One of the leading organizations that helps such childen was ARC -- the Association of
Retarded Children.
The Knights of Columbus, one of the leading fundraisers for such children through its nationally-known Tootsie Roll Drive, supports ARC and similar organizations. Thousands of Knights around the U.S. would stand outside their local supermarkets and Walmarts and collect nickels and dimes for such organizations and, in exchange, or even not in exchange, would hand out Tootsie Rolls. They must have given away millions of them. While the did so, they wore bright yellow vests with red words "HELP RETARDED CITIZENS."
Recently, the Knights got the memo, or I should say, got
a memo, telling them that "retarded" is the wrong word. But what is the right word?
I heard former U.S. Senator Rick Santorum discuss the hurt he and his family felt at the Emanuel incident. He talked about his "special needs" child. He was obviously sincere and, I thought, charitable to Emanuel, in that he said it was a hurtful use of the word but we all mis-speak or make mistakes and so we should just apologize -- sincerely -- and move on. True enough.
But he said "special needs." What about the Knights' vests above? "Mentally handicapped"? "Mentally disabled"? Is it times for new vests?
Sarah Palin trashed Emanuel, too. In the past, she'd referenced "special needs" people, but in her Facebook post on the Emanuel matter, she called them "cognitive and developmental disabilities." That's way too big for a vest.
(Keith Olberman, in turn, and predictably, criticized Palin for using her son's condition for political purposes. He supported his position with a quote from erstwhile non-son-in-law Levi Johnston, who claimed Palin once referred to her Down Syndrome son Trig as her "retarded baby." First, using Levi Johnston to support ANY argument, other than a belief that fathers should accompany teenage daughters on all dates, is ludicrous. So Olberman must be suffering from oxygen deprivation caused by ratings lower than a brotulid fish. Second, the hypocrisy of this is stunning. Olberman never criticizes the Democrats' use of children to promote the liberals' political agenda. Whether the issue is health care, education, taxes, spending, global warming (this became "climate change" once we started to get blizzards in the South every three days), and even, believe it or not, partial birth abortion, Democrats constantly use "the children," including their own children, as a battering ram for social policies that expand their own power and increase the dependency of people on the state.)
But other groups used the incident to scold Emanuel and prime the guilt machine:
"Using a slur about people with intellectual disabilities to criticize other people just isn’t right,” said Peter V. Berns, chief executive officer of The Arc of the United States. “For people with disabilities it is disrespectful and demeaning and only serves to marginalize a constituency that already struggles for empowerment on every front,” Berns added.
Tim Shriver, CEO of Special Olympics wrote to Emanuel:
"Of course, I have no way of knowing if this expression was actually used by you or anyone else. However, I want to take this opportunity to familiarize you and the members of your staff to the suffering and pain that is perpetuated by the use of the terms 'retard' and 'retarded.' Special Olympics has welcomed the voice of thousands of people with intellectual disabilities who have joined us in trying to change the conversation and uproot the stereotypes and stigmas carried by what we refer to as the 'R-word.' Regardless of whether the term was actually used or not, I would ask you to join us in this important fight."
Advocates also want to pass federal legislation that will strike the word "retarded" from all federal laws.
The justifiable offense of these people to the coarseness of Emanuel's comment aside, the real problem is that Emanuel used the word in a derogatory manner. If he had said, "I really think Americans should increase their charitable contributions to groups that help retarded citizens," there would be no outcry at all. Emanuel's sin is showing a lack of respect to citizens who are vulnerable.
But unless defenders of special needs people figure out a way to decide a consensus term, it's pretty hard to criticize the use of the word in general. Sure, Emanuel's obnoxious use is obviously wrong, but who is going to decide the right word or phrase? Tim Shriver? Sarah Palin? Keith Olberman?
Special needs advocates should stop trying to transmogrify Emanuel's revolting use of the word "retarded" into some international cause, especially when they aren't on the same page yourselves. Such kneejerk whining comes across as a self-serving effort to elbow into the continuing and disgusting Victims' Parade that has such a corrosive effect on discourse and substantive progress in this country.
Special needs advocates, especially those in the Kennedy family like Tim Shriver, should stop being hypocrites and openly condemn those who support the use of abortion as a means of ridding themselves, before birth, of special needs children. I realize that would extend logically to condemn all abortion, but, yes, that is the logical conclusion.
In the meantime, advocates, yes, I agree, words hurt. Toughen up.